The point of the entire situation is that both Elena and Damon started to understand that they are more stable without the other and that it’s not their relationship that makes them good people but it’s a change that they have to do as single person not as couple. It’s time that both behave as adult people and face their problems alone without the excuse of their toxic love. This is not a fight between Bamon or Delena, this is a progress that both the characters have to do for themselves.